For some people, travelling with a large group of friends or with a partner is ideal – you have someone to share the fun with, to commiserate with about that missed train, and people to help you carry your suitcase.
However, what if you are more of a history buff than any of your friends, and you spend your trip being hurried out of museums? Or perhaps you want to try all the amazing street food, but your companions want to stick to the buffet at the resort? Or maybe you have just had one too many trips ruined by bickering couples and lazy travel companions?
If these conundrums sound familiar, solo travel may be for you. Solo travel can be a daunting prospect, especially if you’ve never done it before. However, you wouldn’t be the first and you certainly won’t be the last lone traveller. Here’s our guide to what you might want to consider before booking an around the world ticket for one.
Make sure that you’re honest with yourself about who you are as a traveller when you’re planning your trip. If you like being alone, you may prefer to steer towards self-guided tours and hotels with your own bathroom. If you would love to make new friends and interact with people, consider booking group activities with other tourists and staying in a room in someone’s house via Air BnB – or even couch surf if you’re brave. The loveliest thing about solo travel is that you don’t have to make anyone else happy. Embrace this and plan your holiday accordingly.
Planning everything effectively can increase your confidence. With the right resources you can book everything from hotels to daily activities. Even if you think you’d like to give yourself a little more freedom than having every day planned out completely, it’s a good idea to have certain things tied up before arrival. As a solo traveller, at the very least you might want to make sure that your hotels are booked for your arrival. By doing this you’re less likely to have to find somewhere in a panic, or deal with budget issues or bed bugs.
It can be a good idea to have a rough plan about which activities you want to take part in, what part of the city you want to stay in, and how much money you’re likely to spend on taxis or public transport. Find out what the star attractions are in your chosen area, and perhaps even investigate if there are any festivals or special holiday days during your travel period. The more you plan the less likely you will feel anxious and the more likely you are to make the most of your trip.
In order to plan effectively it’s good to know the best resources from which to get your information. Before you book a hotel, don’t just check their own promotional website; try to also look at sites that allow fellow travellers to leave accommodation reviews. It’s a good idea to carefully read people’s reviews and – most importantly – look at photos of the rooms and bathrooms they have taken. Traveller reviews are also a good place pick up tips about the best restaurant for local cuisine, or any hidden places not to miss.
Review websites are great for a general overview, but before your trip you might also want to seek advice from other solo travellers for tips on safety, or just a little inspiration. Janice Leith Waugh’s The Solo Traveler’s Handbook is “chock-full of useful tips and strategies” for solo travelers. Tips range from how to respond to the stigma attached to travelling alone, to how to get around feeling zonked with jet lag. Mike Wallace, writer of Traveling Solo: How to Successfully Travel Alone explores why you should travel on your own without fear. He believes ‘the truth is that if you are going to travel solo, you won’t miss your friends nearly as much as you thought you would. Having the freedom to make split second decisions to go wherever an opportunity presents itself will provide a wonderful experience. And chances are that you will rarely feel lonely since there are many other travelers going on the same journey that you are.”
If you’re nervous about solo travel, you may want to stick to countries where you know the language and the culture is similar to your country of birth. However, if that doesn’t suit your adventurous spirit, it’s always a good idea to learn the basics of the language before you leave on your holiday. Find out how to ask for directions, how to order a meal, how to ask for help, and how to ask about the cost of things – basically anything you’ll need to survive and also to be polite to the locals.
Depending on your destination, it can be a good idea to learn how to say “no, thank you” in the local language, as well as the local nonverbal gesture for no. Rough Guide’s Top Ten Tips for Surviving Solo Travel says that having the local tourist police number in your phone can also be helpful. You’ll probably never need them, but just knowing you have it can give you the confidence to deal with awkward situations.
It’s a good idea to learn about a country or regions’ particular culture before you leave. While most of your learning will develop from experience as you go along, it’s not a great idea to visit someone’s home and accidentally be offensive.
Something as simple as taking a photograph can cause real distress in some parts of the world. Jim Kane’s blog 8 Tips for Culturally Sensitive Photography provides useful insights into how you should approach photography when abroad to make sure you get the best shot without upsetting anybody along the way. Dresscodes for men and women is also important to bear in mind when visiting certain countries and/or religious places. For example if you’re travelling to India, Mariellen Ward suggests women don’t take any clothes except for what’s on their back (with the exception of underwear and good shoes). Mariellen says, “If you land in Delhi, you should head straight to one of the Fabindia outlets and stock up on inexpensive cotton “suits.” The three-piece suit (in Hindi, salwar kameez) consists of a long or short tunic over fitted or wide-legged pants, topped with a long scarf, called a dupatta. These outfits suit the climate, the need for modesty and will help you fit in, mitigating your status as a moving target.” Knowing about conventions of dress is important, as is knowing what is safe to do and what isn’t.
Taste for Travel’s How to behave in Dubai lists some helpful dos and don’ts for holidaying in the United Arab Emirates, especially around the holy month of Ramadan. During the festival, which takes place during the ninth month of the Islamic calendar, tourists are expected to abstain from alcohol, dancing, chewing gum, smoking and singing in public places during the day. This is obligatory according to Dubai law.
Travelling solo doesn’t have to be daunting and you can make wonderful memories that last a lifetime. If you have wanderlust, consider planning that solo trip, get out into the world and start exploring.